New to packing, or choosing your first silicone packer? Here are answers to the questions we hear most. Can’t find what you need? Get in touch and we’ll help.
What is a packer? A packer is a soft prosthetic worn in your underwear to create a bulge at the front. Trans men, transmasc and non-binary people often wear one to feel more comfortable in their clothes and to ease dysphoria. Read more in What is Packing?
What are your packers made of? Our packers are made from soft platinum-cure, body-safe silicone. Silicone is non-porous, so it’s easy to keep clean.
What’s the difference between a soft packer and an STP? A soft packer is designed only for packing. An STP (stand-to-pee) packer also has a channel so you can urinate standing up. STPs take some practice, so try one at home first.
Can a packer be used for sex? No. Our soft packers are made for everyday packing only and aren’t designed for penetration.
Will every packer look exactly like the photos? Colour and fine detail can vary slightly from piece to piece, and may differ from the colour you see on your screen.
What size packer should I choose? If it’s your first packer, start small. Our Soft Packer – Small is 9.5 cm long and suits most everyday outfits. The Soft Packer – Large is 13.5 cm and gives more presence under looser clothes. Many people own both.
How do I choose a skin tone? Our packers come in two skin tones. Most people choose the tone closest to their own skin.
Should I choose silicone or foam? Silicone looks and feels more realistic and keeps its shape over time. Foam is lighter, cheaper and can be trimmed to shape. Our Packing Boxers with Packer come with a removable foam packer, so they’re an easy way to try packing first.
Can I see a packer before I buy? Yes. Book a private, one-on-one appointment at our Cremorne store in Melbourne to browse our packers and packing underwear in person.
How do I keep my packer in place? Wear it in packing underwear with a built-in pouch. Silicone is heavier than foam, so it needs that support to stay put.
Can I wear a packer all day? Yes, many people do. If you notice rubbing or discomfort, take a break and check the fit of your underwear or harness.
How do I clean my packer? Wash it after each wear with warm water and a mild, unscented hand or body soap, then let it dry completely. Once dry, dust it lightly with plain cornstarch to stop it feeling sticky. Avoid dish soap, alcohol, bleach, talc and scented products.
How should I store it? Keep it somewhere cool and dry, out of sunlight, and not touching other silicone items.
How long will my packer last? With good care, a silicone packer should last a long time. Replace it if you notice tears, splits or changes to the surface.
Is the packaging discreet? Yes. Orders ship in plain packaging with no product details on the outside.
How long will my order take? We ship from Melbourne with Australia Post. See our shipping estimates for delivery times to your area.
Can I return a packer? For hygiene reasons, we can’t accept returns of packers. If your packer arrives faulty, contact us and we’ll make it right. See our returns policy for full details.
What if my packer is faulty? Contact us within 7 days of delivery with a photo, and we’ll replace or refund it.
Can I change or cancel my order? Contact us as soon as possible. We can change orders that haven’t been dispatched yet.
