what is 'packing'?

'Packing' is the practice of wearing a prosthetic penis (called a 'packer') to create the appearance and feel of having male genitalia. This practice is commonly used by transgender men, non-binary folk, and anyone seeking to present a more masculine silhouette or alleviate gender dysphoria.

Packing can provide both physical and psychological benefits, helping individuals feel more comfortable and confident in their bodies. Many people find that packing helps them feel more aligned with their gender identity and can reduce feelings of gender dysphoria significantly.

Close-up of pouch in FTM packer underwear - mens pouch underwear for trans guys

what is a 'packer'?

A packer is a soft, penis-shaped prosthetic that sits in the underwear, giving the appearance of a natural bulge. Some packers are stand-alone, while others are sewn into specialised pouch underwear or packing boxers.

FTM packers come in various shapes, sizes, and materials. Some are made for everyday soft packing, while others may also be used for play or STP (Stand-To-Pee) functionality.

Benefits of Packing

Physical Benefits:

  • Creates a natural-looking bulge in clothing
  • Provides weight and presence that can feel affirming
  • Helps fill out swimwear, underwear, and fitted clothing
  • Can improve posture and body language confidence

Psychological Benefits:

  • May reduce gender dysphoria
  • Increases confidence in social situations
  • Helps with body image and self-perception
  • Can make clothing shopping and dressing more enjoyable

Different Types of Packers

Soft Packers

These are designed purely for creating a natural appearance and are typically made from:

  • Foam - Lightweight, affordable, and easy to clean
  • Silicone - More realistic feel and appearance, durable
  • Cyberskin - Ultra-realistic texture but requires more maintenance

3-in-1 Packers

Advanced packers that serve multiple functions:

  • Packing for daily wear
  • Stand-to-pee (STP) functionality
  • Sexual functionality
    These are typically made from medical-grade silicone and represent a significant investment.

Stand-to-Pee (STP) Packers

Designed specifically to allow urination while standing:

  • Functional spout for directing urine
  • Often combined with packing capability
  • Require practice to use effectively

DIY and Budget Options

For those just starting out:

  • Rolled socks (temporary solution)
  • Foam padding
  • Fabric-based packers
    While these can be helpful for experimentation, purpose-made packers offer superior comfort and realism.

Choosing the Right Packer

Consider Your Lifestyle

  • Active lifestyle - Choose lightweight, secure options
  • Professional settings - Opt for discrete, natural-looking packers
  • Swimming/water activities - Select waterproof materials
  • Daily wear - Prioritise comfort and breathability

Size Considerations

Packers come in various sizes. Consider:

  • Your body proportions
  • Clothing style preferences
  • Comfort during different activities
  • Discretion needs in various settings

Material Preferences

  • Foam - Best for beginners, lightweight, machine washable
  • Silicone - More realistic, durable, various firmness options
  • Cyberskin - Most realistic but requires special care

Caring for your packer

The packers that come with our Packing Boxers are made from foam and can be washed in the washing machine inside a laundry wash bag.

Our packers should be comfortable enough to wear all day, however if you experience any chaffing or discomfort, they can be easily trimmed with scissors to reduce their size.

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