Supporting Your Trans Teen: A Parent’s Guide to Gender-Affirming Clothing

Your child has come out to you—and now you're wondering how to show your support. Clothing might seem small, but it can make a huge difference in your teen’s comfort and mental health. Here’s how you can help them feel seen, safe, and stylish.

Why It Matters:

Gender-affirming clothing helps young people express themselves authentically. It supports mental well-being and reduces dysphoria.

Ways to Support:

  • Listen First: Let your teen lead the conversation about what they want to wear.

  • Do Research Together: Learn about different options, like binders, packers, and tucking garments.

  • Respect Pronouns and Names: This goes hand-in-hand with affirming clothing.

  • Consider Budget-Friendly Options: Secondhand stores and support orgs often offer gender-affirming clothes.

Common Questions:

  • Is binding safe for teens? Yes, with proper fit and supervision. Read a bit more about chest binding safety here.

  • Should I buy my teen a binder? If they ask for one, this can be a powerful act of support.

You don’t need all the answers—just your teen’s trust. Show up, learn together, and make space for them to feel like themselves.

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